Re: Songs about people changing?
Date: May 17, 2006 19:19
No, a woman isn't involved at all.
Okay, hold your breath, here's the story.
I've had a lot of bumpy roads the past few years, I've explained it all before - divorce, moving, some girls (no not the album), transferring from university to university and a bunch of other things that I'm sure the older members here can vouch for as being a part of teenage life.
He was present for a lot of that, and helped me through it, which was great of him. It gave me a bum rap though of being the source of all "drama" in our group of friends, or at least that I had more than my fair share, but hey, everyone has drama at times. And I got overly emotional about the stuff and didn't know how to handle it, and would become stubborn and unchanging in my views, but eventually I'd realize it was all okay and would return back to earth.
So he'd put up with it, and things would get back to normal. It was only in 2004 and part of 2005 that this went on. From november or so, it's been smooth SMOOTH sailing for me - I'm finally settled at school, moving on with my life, with only little pithy things that have got me stalled for a day or two. It's been great.
So we both get back from school, and we go to see a movie the sunday that I came back. We were joking, laughing just hanging out like we usually do.
That thursday, I call another friend to tell her that I'm home, and that we should hang out. So my other friend calls and asks if I want to hang out. I said i'd like to, but that I said I was going to spend some time with my other friend (who used to be mutual between us, but is no longer). He doesn't like her one bit.
So I mention this to him, and he seems okay with it.
Here's the kicker...
My girl friend calls back and says, okay let's go hang out. What blows me away is that in the background I hear my OTHER FRIEND - why he'd be hanging out with her is beyond me. Before I hear him in the background, I explain that he's doing something else (which he was) and that another friend of ours who had just arrived home was most likely going to be spending the evening with his family, so it would just be the two of us doing something.
In the background I hear "HE'S A FCUKING LIAR!!!" And sure enough, it's the voice of my friend.
I didn't lie about anything, I only probably didn't explain things as best I could.
So now he's put a boycott on me. He's telling all our other friends not to hang out with me.
He's vile, manipulative, classist, and, so charasmatic that all his awful attributes are swallowed up.
This is a guy that I offered to give my one and only Stones ticket to in September, free of charge, because I knew how much he loved the Stones.
I feel like I've got a knife stuck in my back.
okay, you can all breathe now. Sorry.
It feels good to be talking to people here again, I feel like I've been out of the loop.
And this isn't even the whole story. I'd give my phone number if people want to hear the whole story, ha ha.
Anyways,
thanks.
P.S. - how do I change my handle
P.P.S. - You guys are true blue, I thank you for your friendship, even though we've never met. I feel like you all are friends
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 2006-05-17 19:21 by Jumpin'JackFrash.